I've never really had friends who just sat around and drank beer and watched movies. Not that it doesn't happen, and not that I don't do it, but ... it's an empty entertainment. I'm lucky that I've always known people whose idea of relaxing was working ... hard ... to make things happen. When you meet those people, grab ahold of them, keep them close, and let them make your life bigger. You throw your hopes into the air and, if you spend your time with the right people -- they reach out and catch your dreams, add to them, and they're real before they hit the ground ... more real than you'd ever imagined.